It’s about time we lift everyone up…We need one of these…Moving to Hawaii IS NOT EASY…it’s going to be one of the HARDEST THINGS you ever do…and once you get here things get HARDER! We have told everyone that we don’t sugarcoat things so we are sure many ARE or WILL be dealing with having a hard time here in Hawaii…
Overall the SAME 5 POINTS reach the surface at some point and it snowballs from there:
1.) HOW CAN I AFFORD TO LIVE IN HAWAII
2.) WHY CAN’T I FIT IN HERE IN HAWAII
3.) I MISS FAMILY AND FRIENDS FROM HOME
At 3 you enter the SELF DESTRUCT phase of leaving Hawaii.
4.) PLAYING THE DEFEATIST ATTITUDE AND BLAME GAME
5.) COMING UP WITH EXCUSES ON WHY HAWAII ISN’T RIGHT and WHY YOU NEED TO LEAVE
Trust me…Bruce and I have seen this again and again…this is the cycle of coming and going here in Hawaii and it’s about a YEAR PROCESS for most…If you make it to year two…you are probably SAFE…you broke the barrier 😉 In the end we don’t want people here that go down the same path all those who leave do…So we are going to give you a wake up call and slap you around a bit…maybe a good swift kick to the nuts for you men who start down #3…Moving to Hawaii and living here is a HUGE CHANGE from the mainland in so many ways…some people love it, so hate it…We don’t want the haters here…anyone who gives up the chance to live in GOD COUNTRY is just not something Bruce and I can understand…Living here is a blessing…we are lucky to live here and it’s another reason why we do this podcast…We bitch from time to time, but that’s because we have such a passion and love for Hawai’i Nei…We don’t want it to change like the mainland…we’ll never leave and we’ll fight every day to live here…something others just don’t seem interested in…so be gone…be gone…Those who live here and make ends meet…Yeah…We got this.