We have all been there…Even Wayde and Bruce have…Dealing with EX’s in the same small town or city or even A SMALL ISLAND where you have mutual friends and acquaintances IS NOT EASY! There are so many things you have to deal with and bullshit that follows. You also have to be careful with what you say and do because word can always get out if you have mutual friends because some friends may have already picked a side where their allegiance is either for you or your ex…that’s when they can play both sides, but they will also snoop and relay gossip to you or the ex one way or the other.
That is only scratching the surface as everyone in the end wants to move along with their lives, but sometimes certain circumstances can make it easier than others…Your EX moves far away…perhaps even to another state…Your EX takes a massive downgrade while you and your friends laugh about it…these things can make a breakup easier, even make you feel bad for them. Running into them alone or with their new partner can always be an awkward situation and no one wants issues or a scene. When things like this happen you need to take the high road and realize that if it was meant to be it would have…You don’t want to ever be with someone who isn’t worthy of you, doesn’t deserve you or doesn’t want to be with you!
Some people wish only misery for their EX’s…but some wish them the best…Which one are you? Are you still friends with your EX’s?…Do you wish they would just get hit by a truck? What kind of EX are you? We’ll be discussing these questions in this episode and how to avoid confrontations with them while taking the high road because the truth is EX’s are a shitty part of life and just because you’re in Hawaii living in Paradise doesn’t mean you don’t have them…On a small island you only have so many choices and more than likely you’ll be running into them so it’s best to be ready and prepared for it when it happens…The best advice I can give is FORGIVE…forgive him or her ASAP…No matter what they did to you or to your friends and how they treated you or your friends that’s the kind of stuff you can’t be holding onto…sooner you let it go the sooner you move forward so that running into your EX on a small island won’t be an issue anymore and maybe, just maybe you can be friends with them in the end.